FORGIVE ME PLEASE ?

maafin gue duuuunk....

oleh Vic Himawan pada 17 Juli 2011 jam 15:57

niihh gue kasih tau cara yang paling mujarab buat minta maaf
silahkan dicoba guys
monggo

Dalam kehidupan sering kita sulit untuk bisa memaafkan atau mungkin meminta maaf, jadi aku punya sedikit pengetahuan bagaimana cara kita meminta maaf yang baik untuk orang lain, disini aku berikan 7 trik meminta maaf :

1. Jujur saat menghadapi masalah
Artinya biasakan bersikap terbuka pada orang lain. Jangan takut mengungkapkan permasalahan yang Anda hadapi. Jika ia tahu masalah yang Anda hadapi dan ternyata Anda berbuat kesalahan, mungkin orang lain akan bisa memahami dan Anda harus bisa menjelaskan perbuatan/kesalahan Anda tersebut pada orang itu.

2. Berani mengakui kesalahan
Jangan takut atau malu mengakui kesalahan yang Anda perbuat. Berani mengakui kekuarangan dan kesalahan adalah ciri orang berjiwa besar.

3. Menampakkan penyesalan
Jika Anda mengalami ini katakan betapa Anda sangat menyesal telah menyakiti hatinya. Namun, penyesalan yang Anda lakukan hendaknya bukan sekedar lip service alias ucapan dibibir. Penyesalan yang mendalam dan tulus akan terbaca dari sikap yang Anda tampilkan.

4. Mau berubah
Jiwa besar untuk mengakui dan menampakkan penyesalan wajib diikuti perbaikan sikap dan perilaku. Jika setelah meminta maaf Anda tetap mengerjakan pekerjaan yang merugikan atau menyakitkan hatinya, tentu permohonan maaf Anda tak akan berarti apa-apa.

5. Menyenangkan hatinya
Usai meminta maaf, lengkapi komunikasi dengan mengerjakan hal-hal yang dapat menyenangkan hatinya. Dan kalau perlu berikan perhatian yang lebih dari biasanya.

6. Tidak mengulangi kesalahan yang sama
Berusahalah untuk konsekuen terhadap janji yang telah Anda ucapkan padanya. Kesungguhan Anda untuk tidak melakukan kesalahan serupa akan membuat Anda lebih berhati-hati dalam melangkah.

7. Siap menerima kritik
Jangan sekali-kali merasa apa yang Anda lakukan selalu benar. Berbesar hati untuk menerima pendapat atau kritik adalah salah satu cara untuk meminimalisir kesalahpahaman.


naaahh gimana tuh tips yang ane kasih buat ente semua??
semoga bermanfaat ya
amien

Benefits of Prayer in congregation

Often we neglect to hasten to do good because it does not know the benefits of the good we do. So, I wanted to share a little about the benefits of praying in congregation (especially in the mosque for a feel guy, man atawa brother) so we are all in the spirit to do the deeds of this one. Check this out!
1. Compliance Forms Commandments and His Messenger.
"And establish prayer, pay Zakat and bow down with those who bow orag" (Al-Baqarah: 43).
Ibn Kathir explains this verse with the caption, 'let with believers in various acts of their best, and most major and shape it with a prayer'.


2. As Evidence of Faith
"Only the prosperity of the mosques of Allah are those who believe in Allah and the Last Day, and still establish prayer, give charity and do not be afraid (to anyone) besides Allah, then they're the ones who are expected to include among those who receive guidance ". (At-Tauba: 18)


3. Means of Keeping Yourself From Satanic Disorders
"No three orangpun in a village or a valley that is not held there prayers in congregation, but has been obvious that they have been influenced by the devil. Be on guard for prayer in congregation, because only isolated from the flock of goats alone could be eaten by wolves ". (Narrated by An Nasa'i)


4. Distancing Yourself From Nature The Hypocrites
Among the properties of the hypocrites are those lounging in prayer. This is stated by Allah in Surat an-Nisa verse 142.
"Verily the hypocrites that deceive Allah, and Allah will reward their scam. And when they stand up to prayer they stand up lazily. They intend riya '(the prayer) in the presence of humans. Nor did they mention the name of God except the very few ".


"There is no prayer is harder for the hypocrites over (weight) and Isha prayers Shubuh '. And if they find merit in both, they will come (congregation) although with a crawl "(Mutafaqun 'alaih).


5. Being For His sin was forgiven by God
"If the priest says" ghoiril maghdhubi 'alaihim waladhallin "(not the people who you murkai nor oranng who lost) then just say" amen ", because really who is greeting (aminnya) simultaneously with the speech of angels, then he will forgiven of his sins of past '(HR.Mutafaqun' alaih).


"If the priest says" sami'allahu liman hamidah "(Allah hears those who praise Him) then just say" Allahumma Rabbana lakal hamdu "(Our Lord, to You all praise), because actually the same who's greeting speech of angels, He would have forgiven his sins that have been past "(Narrated by Mutafaqun 'alaih).


"Who made ablution for prayer and refine wudhunya, then walk (to perform the obligatory prayers, and he prayed with people or with the congregation or in the mosque, Allah will forgive his sins" (Narrated by Muslim).


6. Being In God's Assurance
"Anyone who prays in congregation Shubuh then he is in the assurance of God".


7. Getting the shade of Allah on the Day of Judgement
"Seven people group to whom Allah will shade on the Day of Resurrection in which there is no protection except for His protection. ... someone whose heart is always dependent on the mosque "(Narrated by Muslim).


8. Free From Hell and the nature of Hypocrisy
"Who does the prayer in congregation for 40 days, and he got the first Takbir, undoubtedly written for her two exemptions, free (survivors) of hell and survived nifak".


9. Congratulations Of Negligence
"Really some people will actually stop (habit) to leave the prayer in congregation or God will completely seal their hearts and they actually include people who are negligent" (Narrated by Ibn Majah).


10. As Media fastabiqu Khoirot (competing in goodness)
Competing in a good, pious charity, which has been commanded by Allah to His servants. Allah says;
"And so that, should the race" (Surat al-Muthaffifin: 26).


See guy'z, the benefits are very nice :)
So, there are those who want to lazy-malesan congregation prayer (especially for the guys niih)? Syurga reward, so you know ........!!!! Spirit .....!!!!!

masa SMA

hey , ini pertama kalinya aku posting di blog .. haha
sekarang aku sudah kelas 2 SMA . sumpahh deh ,,SMA adalah masa masa yang sangat menyenangkaan ! banyak banget pelajaran yang dapat aku petik dari masa masa sekolah di Smanda.
mulai dari persahabatan, pertengkaran (loh), sampai percintaan. HAHA
tapi sayaaang , percintaan aku ga pernah muluuss -,-"
setiaaaap aku suka sama orang pasti orang itu juga disukai sama orang lain . heuhh ..
kaya pribahasa "nyari pacar itu kaya nyari angkot, kadang angkot yang kita inginkan sudah dianaiki sama orang lain" HAHA (copas dr PJP)